Tom Ham's Lighthouse 2150 Harbor Island Drive • San Diego • CA 92101

Every package at Tom Ham's Lighthouse on Harbor Island in San Diego includes a 6-hour event time, a buffet or plated lunch or dinner with bread rolls, soda, coffee, tea and water, a champagne and sparkling cider toast, and cake cutting. Tables, gold Chiavari chairs, a dance floor, white linens and napkins in your choice of color are covered too. Moving up adds more: the Windward Package brings two appetizers and wine service, and the Quarterdeck Package adds three appetizers, wine service and a 1-hour hosted bar. What's separate: a 25% service charge, the ceremony fee if you marry on site, and bar packages when they're priced on their own.

Yes, Tom Ham's Lighthouse hosts both, and the ceremony site sits steps from the banquet rooms. You'll say your vows at the waterfront ceremony site, seating up to 230 guests, under a metal sculptural arch that frames the bay and the downtown skyline. Then head inside to the California Room, which seats up to 230 and has a built-in bar and a private wraparound patio over the bay, or the Harbor View Room for up to 80 guests.

Catering and alcohol are in-house at Tom Ham's Lighthouse, and the culinary team will build a custom menu with you, with a focus on fresh seafood, from plated dinners and buffets to passed appetizers and custom bar packages. If you have a favorite bottle in mind, you can bring your own wine for a $15 per bottle corkage fee.

Packages at Tom Ham's Lighthouse in San Diego run $85–$140 per person, and the price moves with the package you choose and the time of year. The Portside Package is $85–$100 per person, the Windward Package is $100–$120, and the Quarterdeck Package is $110–$140 with a 1-hour hosted bar; keeping the bar open for the remaining 4 hours adds $41–$46 per person. If you're marrying on site, the ceremony fee is $1,200–$1,500 and covers white chairs, a water station, an aisle runner, tables and a rehearsal. Bar packages priced separately run $18–$32 per person for the first hour and $7–$20 for each extra hour, and a 25% service charge is added to everything.

Every package at Tom Ham's Lighthouse includes a 6-hour event time, which covers your meal, toasts, cake cutting and dancing. Amplified music is allowed both indoors and outdoors, with some restrictions, so ask the Special Events team which ones apply to your space.

Tom Ham's Lighthouse is a historic waterfront restaurant on Harbor Island, right across the bay from the San Diego skyline, so your ceremony and reception both happen on the water. The ceremony site's sculptural arch, designed by a local artist, frames your vows against the bay and the city. It's an easy trip for everyone: San Diego International Airport is about five minutes away, there's free self-parking out front, and four hotels sit within a half mile. Planning something small? The second-floor Private Dining Room seats 15–36 guests for an intimate lunch or dinner.