Forgotten Barrel Winery 1120 West 15th Avenue • Escondido • CA 92025


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Why You'll Love This Place

A Here Comes The Guide Wedding Venue Review
  • With the inviting, hidden-away feel of your favorite neighborhood winery, this Escondido gem has been delighting locals for over a century. Founded in 1886, Forgotten Barrel holds the title of San Diego's oldest winery—a legacy reflected both in its warm, rustic architecture and its best-of-the-region varietals. Snap stunning photos against the ivy-draped walls, or venture out amid the three acres of vineyards to capture romantic portraits in the buttery golden hour glow.
  • Trellised vines, colorful gardens, and winding pathways lead towards the secluded ceremony lawn, where you'll exchange vows against a backdrop of mature trees. Mingle over a glass of bubbly in the warmly lit courtyard before moving to your reception in the Barrel Room: built around the time of the winery's opening, its rough-hewn stone walls and wood-beamed ceilings provide the kind of rich, authentic atmosphere you just can't fake.
  • Despite the venue's historic charm, their all-inclusive packages are thoroughly modern, featuring just about everything you need, including two getting ready spaces, bespoke catering menus, an open bar (featuring their own wines, beer, hard seltzer, and agave margaritas!), event management and month-of coordination, DJ services, and an extensive collection of in-house décor. 

DEALS: What discounts, special offers, or packages are available here?

Micro Wedding Package and A La Carte Options are available! Contact the venue for more details.

PRICES: What's this going to cost?

Package Prices
  • $6,700/event and up
  • Package prices vary depending on:
    • Day of week
    • Guest count
  • Inclusive wedding packages include:

    • 5-hour event time (event must conclude at 10pm)
    • Two getting-ready spaces for both parties
    • Open bar (wine, beer, hard seltzer, agave margarita, and nonalcoholic beverages) and bartending services
    • Tables, chairs, and setup & teardown
    • Event manager and month-of coordination
    • Catering from Chef Joann Bespoke Catering and Event Design
    • Dessert from Heritage Desserts or Donut, Hello
    • DJ services from Pompeo DJ Company
    • Wedding decor
    • And more!

    Inclusive Wedding Packages range $6,700–9,900 plus a per-person charge of $70–95/person, depending on catering package, and include everything above. Additional add-ons are available; inquire for details!

Service Charge or Gratuity
  • 20%

COUPLES ARE ASKING: We've got answers

What's included when we book Forgotten Barrel Winery, and what will we still need to pay for separately?

Forgotten Barrel Winery in Escondido offers all-inclusive packages, so the space, an open bar, dinner, desserts and a DJ come bundled together. You'll also get five hours of event time, two getting-ready spaces, tables and chairs with setup and teardown, bar staff and access to the venue's free décor, from lanterns and easels to table numbers and signage. Plan on a 20% service charge on top. The one big thing to budget for separately is a wedding coordinator: the venue requires one on site from start to finish, whether you hire day-of, month-of or full coordination.

Can we have both our ceremony and reception at Forgotten Barrel Winery, or will guests need to travel between them?

Yes, your whole day happens at Forgotten Barrel Winery, so nobody has to move venues. You'll say your vows on the ceremony lawn under mature shade trees, then everyone strolls to the cocktail patio, set with cocktail tables, stools and heaters or umbrellas as needed. Dinner and dancing move into the Barrel Room, with stone walls and wood-beamed ceilings from the winery's early days. The veranda is a fun extra spot for yard games, a photo booth or a dessert cart.

If we already have vendors we love, can we bring them to Forgotten Barrel Winery or do we have to use yours?

You've got some flexibility at Forgotten Barrel Winery. The venue recommends caterers from its preferred list, but outside caterers are allowed with prior approval, and any vendor who isn't on the preferred list needs the venue's OK. Caterers must carry liability insurance and workers' comp, and every vendor provides a certificate of insurance. Outside alcohol isn't allowed, since the winery runs the bar with its own wine, beer and agave cocktails.

What should we realistically expect to spend on a wedding at Forgotten Barrel Winery, and is there a minimum?

At Forgotten Barrel Winery in Escondido, all-inclusive packages run $6,700–$9,900, plus $70–$95 per guest depending on the catering package you choose, with a 20% service charge on top. Three things move your total: the day of the week, your guest count and your catering package. The venue holds up to 100 guests, so your per-guest costs stay in a predictable range. If you'd rather choose your own vendors, there's an à la carte option too. To lock in your date, plan on a $7,500 non-refundable retainer, plus a $1,000 refundable damage and cleaning deposit due about 30 days before the wedding. And remember to budget for a coordinator, since one is required.

How long do we get at Forgotten Barrel Winery, and when does the music have to stop?

Forgotten Barrel Winery's inclusive packages give you five hours of event time, and everything wraps by 10pm. That end time is firm: the music stops, the bar closes 30 minutes before, and guests head out promptly while the one hour of cleanup begins. The getting-ready suite opens as early as 9am, so you'll have the morning for hair and makeup. Good to know: the tasting room keeps its public hours, so you may spot winery guests on the property during your event.

What makes Forgotten Barrel Winery different from the other venues near it?

Forgotten Barrel Winery stands out as San Diego's oldest winery location, built in 1886, with all-inclusive packages that bundle the space, an open bar, dinner, desserts and a DJ. Your ceremony and reception both happen on its 3-acre Escondido property, moving from the shaded ceremony lawn to the cocktail patio and into the stone-walled Barrel Room. There are two getting-ready suites on site, plus free décor to borrow. And with room for up to 100 guests, it's made for couples who want a smaller, more personal wedding surrounded by vineyards.

Does Forgotten Barrel Winery work for a small wedding or an elopement, and what would that look like?

Yes, Forgotten Barrel Winery is a natural fit for a small wedding. The whole venue holds up to 100 guests, including the two of you, and the winery offers a Micro Wedding Package for even more intimate celebrations, along with à la carte options. Because pricing moves with guest count, a shorter guest list keeps your per-person catering total lower. Ask about the Micro Wedding Package when you reach out so you can compare it side by side with the full packages.

GUEST COUNT: How many people can we have here? What’s the max capacity?

Indoors Outdoors
Ceremony Seated 100 100
Cocktails, etc. Standing 100 100
Reception Seated 100 100
Meetings Total meeting capacity for this venue is 100.

Venue Info & FAQs

OPTIONS: What kinds of events can we have here?

  • All-Inclusive
  • Outdoor Ceremony
  • Ceremony
  • Wedding Receptions
  • Outdoor Reception
  • LGBTQ+ Friendly
  • Small Wedding
  • Rehearsal Dinner
  • Special Events / Parties
  • Business Functions / Meetings

POLICIES: What are the food, alcohol, music, and other rules here?

Price

$ • $$

Catering

In-house
Preferred list

Alcohol

In-house

Wine, beer, and hard agave margaritas are offered; no hard alcohol is allowed.


Amplified Music

Indoors
Some restrictions

Wheelchair Access

Wheelchair accessible

Availability

Year-round, daily, 9am–10pm.

STYLE: What’s the style and overall vibe of this venue?

Buildings & other settings available:

  • Historic / Landmark Building
  • Winery / Vineyard
  • Garden

VIEWS: What kind of views does this place have?

Peep the views you’ll enjoy from this venue!

  • Landscaped Grounds
  • Vineyard

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