Bali Hai Restaurant 2230 Shelter Island Dr • San Diego • CA 92106


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Why You'll Love This Place

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  • Experience the enchantment of a private island getaway at this award-winning venue and restaurant, which sits on the tip of Shelter Island in the San Diego bay. With a rich history that dates back to the 1950s, this iconic spot is one of the few remaining mid-century Tiki establishments in the country... with contemporary updates that showcase the location's unbeatable bay and city views while preserving the magic of this past.
  • Take advantage of the area's exquisite climate in the Hawaiian Village, a unique outdoor pavilion located directly on the water. Another fabulous option is the South Pacific room, a circular space lined with crystal-clear bay windows for unobstructed vistas of the sparkling bay, harbor, and city skyline. Your guests will also love the Tapa-designed built-in bar, where they can easily refresh their mai-tais between spins on the dance floor.
  • The delicious Polynesian-meets-Californian cuisine is a highlight of celebrations here, with flexible options that range from elegant plated service to festive luau buffets. Pre-wedding tastings with the Executive Chef give you the opportunity to fully customize your menu to match your desires (and budget!). Stress-free packages also include the services of the talented events team, who will handle every detail.

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Contact the Events Team at Bali Hai Restaurant to customize your weekday elopement celebration with spectacular views of San Diego Bay and the downtown skyline. Be sure to let them know you found them through Here Comes The Guide.


Enjoy reduced rates for weekday and November–March weddings while receiving all the same luxurious amenities and services. Your wedding includes the complete package: 6-hour rental time, catering, champagne toast, setup & teardown, tables & chairs, linens, napkins, and more. The only difference? The savings you'll enjoy for your date. Please contact the venue for more information.


Skip the year-long wait! Bali Hai's experienced team will handle all the details to eliminate the waiting, not the magic. Stress-free wedding packages cover event setup, teardown, and everything in between. Contact the venue to start planning your 2025 wedding today!

PRICES: What's this going to cost?

Ceremony Fee
  • $1,500/event
  • 2026 ceremony fee is $2,000.

Package Prices
  • $80–140/person
  • Package prices vary depending on:
    • Package chosen
    • Lunch or dinner

  • All packages include:

    • 6-hour rental time (10am–3:30pm or 11:30am–4pm for lunch, and 6:30pm–midnight or 4–10pm for dinner)
    • Plated or buffet meal, with starters and side
    • Champagne and cider toast
    • Bread and butter
    • Cake cutting
    • Coffee, tea, iced tea, and water
    • Necessary staffing
    • Tables, chairs, linens, napkins, tableware, and setup & teardown
    • Dance floor
    • Free self-parking

    Upgraded packages may also include appetizers, wine service, and a 1-hour call bar. Hosted bar packages, when priced separately, start at $20–30/person for the first hour, and $8–16/person per additional hour.

Food & Beverage Minimum
  • $2,500–12,000/event
  • Food & Beverage minimum varies depending on:
    • Day of week
    • Time of day
    • Time of year
  • The F&B minimum is $2,500 Monday–Thursday, and $5,000–12,000 for weekend events.

Service Charge or Gratuity
  • 25%
Additional Info
  • There is no venue fee as long as the food & beverage minimum is met. If it isn't, the difference is charged as a venue fee.

Capacity

Indoors Outdoors
Ceremony Seated 0 200
Cocktails, etc. Standing 300 300
Reception Seated 200 200
Meetings Total meeting capacity for this venue is 100.

Venue Details

Site Uses

  • Outdoor Ceremony
  • Ceremony
  • Wedding Receptions
  • Outdoor Reception
  • Small Wedding
  • Rehearsal Dinner
  • Special Events / Parties
  • Business Functions / Meetings
  • Late Night

Essential Info

Price

$

Catering

In-house

No outside catering allowed, with the exception of wedding cake/desserts.


Alcohol

In-house

No BYO with the exception of wine, which has a corkage fee starting at $15/750ml bottle.


Amplified Music

Indoors
Outdoors
Some restrictions

Wheelchair Access

Wheelchair accessible

Availability

Year-round.

Venue Type

Buildings & other settings available:

  • Historic / Landmark Building
  • Patio / Deck / Terrace
  • Restaurant
  • Unique

Venue Views

Peep the views you’ll enjoy from this venue!

  • Cityscape
  • Garden
  • Landscaped Grounds
  • Ocean / Bay
  • Panoramic

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