The real California "hot spots"!
WANTED: A special place for a romantic escape. Scenic, natural surroundings required. Must be lavished with sensual creature comforts. Obliging yet unobtrusive service preferred.
Sound like you? If so, we're answering your cry for help with a selection of some of the best places in California for a romantic weekend (or longer!)—choice spots bound to inspire relaxation and heartfelt moments. (No need to thank us—an Instagrammed photo of your happy, rejuvenated selves will do!)
To help you prepare, see our Tips for a Romantic Getaway.
From North to South…
At this Wine Country eco-resort, picturesque environs, gourmet sustenance, and the art of spa combine to release worldly tensions and weave a sense of togetherness. You and your significant other can experience the healing tingle of essential oil-enhanced mud treatments at Solage’s signature Mud Bar & Bathhouse. Later, from your private cabana, it’s just steps to the geothermally heated pool. Your guest cottage even has a pebbled shower floor, tempting you to linger in your bain à deux. And find more romantic hotels with full spa services in Northern California here.
Surrounded by 300 acres of native woodlands, Chaminade's postcard-perfect, hilltop setting overlooking Monterey Bay is just the start of this retreat's romantic attractions. Imagine strolling hand-in-hand through a forest…cozying up by an outdoor fire pit for some late-night stargazing…savoring fine wine and a glorious sunset on your private patio…or unwinding together with a couple's massage at the Zen-inspired spa. There's simply no end to magical moments at Chaminade Resort, where you'll find a unique blend of down-to-earth luxury and outdoorsy leisure activities that you can experience together.
It’s impossible not to be moved by the staggering beauty of Carmel, which embraces Hyatt Carmel Highlands. Throughout your stay, you and your significant other experience a cascade of sensory delights: the layered fragrance of wild herbs, pine forests and the ocean; a breathtaking coastal panorama from this extraordinary cliffside setting; and the mating songs of native birds. The environs may be rustic, but the rooms at Hyatt Carmel Highlands are luxurious perfection—some include a wood-burning fireplace and a balcony. You’ll want to opt for a custom in-room spa treatment.
Tuscan-inspired luxury and pampering in the heart of Paso Robles Wine Country can be yours at the new Allegretto Vineyard Resort. Lavished with Old World materials like stone and marble, the stunning resort is surrounded by fountains, grapevines, and picturesque hillsides. The interior is equally impressive: A grand staircase sweeps into the Lobby, which boasts a lofty frescoed ceiling that could be right out of a Medici villa. Whether lounging poolside within sight of the vineyards, indulging in viticultural spa treatments for two, or wining and dining on locally sourced Northern Italian fare, you’re bound to feel every bit the romantic.
The artist’s village of Cambria is known for pristine beaches, rugged hiking trails, and the garden paradise of Cambria Pines Lodge. Set on a forested knoll overlooking Moonstone Beach, the comfortably quaint Lodge is a welcome escape from day-to-day worries. Exploring the Lodge’s lovely themed gardens naturally turns one’s attention to the birds and bees, and whether you and your sweetie reserve a rustic cabin or a fireplace suite, the Lodge makes an inspiring setting for your own passion play.
San Luis Obispo
In the wooded hillsides above Avila Beach lies Sycamore Mineral Springs, a natural haven for metaphysical connections, as well as more earthly pleasures. Stroll together through the Meditation Gardens Labyrinth and contemplate the meaning of it all, or lounge in your private redwood hot tub following decadent spa treatments. The resort’s West Meadows Suites offer ultimate privacy amidst a flowering glen. Culinary Bonus: The Gardens of Avila restaurant, which has consistently been voted “Most Romantic on the Central Coast.”
Santa Barbara Wine Country
This historic, 150-acre private retreat set among the gorgeous back roads of Santa Barbara Wine Country is a combination of a centuries-old barn and two Appalachian cabins. Though its been updated with modern luxuries, the Farmhouse is a unique back-to-nature hideaway that radiates authentic charm. The property is reserved for an entire month (or a month of weekends!), and makes an inspired choice for an extended destination WeddingMoon. You can even gift unused days to deserving friends or family. And it’s an amazing basecamp for day trips: Explore the region’s scenic wine trails and culinary destinations, then return to the Farmhouse for evening bonfires and stargazing.
At Shutters, you can revel in sunsets, seagulls, and stretches of powdery sand from the seclusion of your beach patio...or walk right outside the hotel lobby and lay your beach towels side by side. Then slather suntan lotion on each other and let the balmy breeze caress your skin as the rhythm of the waves lulls you to Fantasyland. Especially ONEderful is Shutters’ acclaimed spa, ONE, a favorite of "in the know" power couples. Our advice: Make like a celebrity duo and head on over to Shutters! You’ll find more romantic hotels with full spa services in Southern California here.
Deep in the San Bernardino mountains is a heavenly lakeside retreat that’s famous for playing Cupid: Lake Arrowhead has created a tempting selection of romantic spa and couples packages “designed to enliven the senses”. Our favorite: “Dirty Weekend/Good Clean Fun”, which includes peacock feathers and chocolate body paint…need we say more? Should you want a little extra help, consult the accommodating staff about creating a special Lake Arrowhead Resort weekend with your loved one.
This exclusive Mediterranean-inspired retreat evokes the romance and natural elegance of the desert. Swim in cool pools resembling tropical lagoons. Sip a glass of frosty champagne after your afternoon massage, and admire the snow-topped mountain peaks bathed in the rosy glow of sunset.
This island getaway—just 20 minutes over the bridge from San Diego—may be one of the few places where you truly can have it all. The accommodations are wonderfully plush, and what really impresses is how warm and helpful the staff is at every turn. Its serene locale balances beach-y relaxation with pampered elegance, while providing unsurpassed ocean and bay vistas. Indulge in some spa treatments, take a dip in the pool, play tennis or explore the town. Presiding over its own 15-acre peninsula adjacent to Silver Strand State Beach, this beautiful venue offers a picturesque setting plus the personal touch that makes every couple feel like VIPs.
Okay, so maybe you can’t get away for the entire weekend…well, there’s nothing like a candlelight dinner at a romantic restaurant as prologue to a steamy evening. Some of our personal faves: Geoffrey's Malibu (Malibu); The Firehouse (Sacramento); and Shadowbrook (Santa Cruz.)