At your wedding reception, you and your newly minted husband are more than the stars: You’re the common denominator amongst your friends and family. They’re all there to celebrate with you, but you can’t be everywhere at once. So how can you make sure everyone’s mixing and mingling and having a good time when you’re off doing necessary things like getting your pictures taken during cocktail hour?
Here are a few suggestions to break the ice:
Interactive Guest “Books”: Ditch the same old Hallmark guest book and get your guests involved in creating a memory book, a wedding wish tree, a photo album guest book, or a video guest book. (Have your videographer meet all guests and ask them to extend their best wishes.)
Photo Booth: What could be more fun than 6 friends hamming it up for the camera? Include silly “accessories” (hats, jewelry, boas) and you’ll have one big old party in a box.
Mobile Entertainment: Rich Ferguson, master illusionist, is a great example. He strolls around while masterfully engaging people in conversation and then… voilà!, he’s blown everyone’s mind with an illusion that keeps everyone talking throughout the reception. A quality caricature artist—with emphasis on quality!—can add something to talk about as well.
Bridal Party Social Assignments: Assign tables to members of your wedding party and ask them to visit with anyone who looks left out or bored. Ask the men who dance to invite the single girls to the dance floor. And don’t forget to assign the biggest flirt in your wedding party to flirt with Grandpa. Grandpas love the attention! (My grandpa told me to write that!)
Group Dances: They may seem a little cheesy, but group dances are great for getting your single guests and people who have two left feet onto the dance floor. My son’s horah dance got all my non-dancing (and non-Jewish) relatives up and having loads of fun! Ask your DJ or emcee what dances and songs bring everyone to the dance floor.
Table-Hopping: Be sure that you and your groom try to get to each and every table to say “thank-you for coming,” and, if appropriate, ask your parents to do the same. You’ll be served your meal first and then you can get up and table-hop while everyone else finishes their meal. A simple acknowledgment to each and every guest can make them feel very special.
And your ideas? We’d love to hear them!