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Same-Sex Weddings: It’s About Time

This week we’re celebrating with everyone who finally has the ability to marry in California. It’s about time.

P.S. The L.A. Times has a helpful chart for all couples—gay or straight—showing which counties have clerks who will perform ceremonies.

Same sex wedding cake toppers by Renellie

Jennifer Posted by Jennifer on Jun 17, 2008.
Filed under Ceremony

A California Husband with a Maiden Name

Whose last name will you have after you get married? The bride can keep her last name, take the husband’s surname, hyphenate, come up with an entirely new name…but what about the husband taking the wife’s name? California men, you are now in luck. Michel Bijon, Buday, has gone to bat for you.

Michel and Diana Bijon, photo from Yahoo NewsWhen he and his wife Diana filled in their marriage license, they decided both would use her surname, but the form didn’t have a place for that. Michael didn’t think it was fair that he’d have to go through court appearances and mounds of paperwork for something that is much more routine for brides, so he ended up filing a lawsuit, which resulted in a new law making it simpler for each member of a couple to choose whatever last name they prefer.

Jennifer Posted by Jennifer on May 08, 2008.
Filed under Off Beat

Children at the Wedding

Boy at wedding by Emily Scannell Photography

Worried about inviting children to your wedding? My husband and I welcomed children and babies at our wedding. We even asked the religious school kids who had class at the same time as our wedding to join us (in the back of the sanctuary) for the ceremony. None of the single-digit crowd caused any sort of distraction.

Our thinking was that the reason we had a wedding with guests (and didn’t just elope) was that our family and friends (including the little ones) were an important ingredient in our celebration.

As a parent now, though, I must say that I am looking forward to attending a wedding next week that will have a babysitter. We’re traveling across the country to attend—and without a babysitter at the wedding we would have to either find our own babysitter (not a simple or likely task from out of state!) or we would end up taking turns outside with our pre-schoolers burning off a little of their energy, thus missing out on the wedding.

Jennifer Posted by Jennifer on Apr 16, 2008.
Filed under Expert AdvicePlanningReceptions